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Resources for adults & children

So many brilliant workplaces, charities, books and services do vital work for grieving adults and children every day. Memory Robin is here to work alongside them, and to make sure everyone who comes to us knows where else they can turn.

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WHERE TO TURN

UK bereavement support workplaces

Trusted charities and services offering helplines, counselling and guidance for children, young people and families.

Child Bereavement UK

Supports families and educates professionals when a baby or child of any age dies, is dying, or when a child faces bereavement. Helpline, online support, and resources for schools.

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Together for Short Lives

Supporting seriously ill children and their families, working with professionals and services across the UK.

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Grief Encounter

Bereavement support for children, young people and families: counselling, workshops and a free helpline.

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Cruse Bereavement Support

Bereavement support for anyone who needs it, through phone, email and face-to-face services.

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Hope Again

Cruse's free, confidential service for young people (12 to 25) who are coping with bereavement.

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The Good Grief Trust

A UK-wide directory of bereavement services, connecting people to the right support wherever they live.

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At A Loss

The UK's signposting service for the bereaved, helping people find the right type of support for their situation.

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Marie Curie

End-of-life care and bereavement support for people with a terminal illness and the people who love them.

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WAY, Widowed and Young

A peer-to-peer support network for anyone widowed under the age of 51, and their children.

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WHERE TO TURN IN THE US

US bereavement support workplaces

Trusted national workplaces offering grief support, camps and directories for children, young people and families.

The Dougy Center

The national leader in grief support for children, teens and families, with resources and a directory used across the US.

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Judi's House / JAG Institute

Free comprehensive grief care for bereaved children and families in Denver, and national research on childhood bereavement.

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National Alliance for Children's Grief

A nationwide network helping families find local grief support wherever they are in the US.

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Eluna Network (Camp Erin)

Runs free bereavement camps and year-round support for grieving children and families across the country.

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The Compassionate Friends

Supporting families after the death of a child, with local chapters nationwide.

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Comfort Zone Camp

One of the largest providers of free bereavement camps for children in the US.

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Experience Camps

Free summer camps and year-round programs for children grieving the death of someone important to them.

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Bo's Place

A bereavement center supporting grieving children, their families and adults through peer support groups.

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Soaring Spirits International

A widowed community offering peer support and events, including Camp Widow, for people of all backgrounds.

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READ TOGETHER

Books for children living with grief

Grouped by age. Every family and every child is different, these are a starting point, not a prescription.

Ages 3-6

Picture books

The Invisible String

Patrice Karst

A gentle metaphor: the people we love are always connected to us by an invisible string of love.

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Badger's Parting Gifts

Susan Varley

A tender classic: Badger's friends remember the gifts he gave each of them.

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Goodbye Mog

Judith Kerr

Mog the Cat dies, and her family learns how to remember her. Very gentle.

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Always and Forever

Alan Durant & Debi Gliori

A family of animals grieves and slowly remembers together. Warm and reassuring.

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Missing Mummy

Rebecca Cobb

A sensitive, honest picture book about a young child whose mother has died.

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When Dinosaurs Die

Laurie Krasny Brown & Marc Brown

Clear, honest answers to the questions children ask about death, in picture-book form.

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Ages 7-10

Michael Rosen's Sad Book

Michael Rosen

Written after the death of his son Eddie. Extraordinarily honest and moving.

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The Heart and the Bottle

Oliver Jeffers

A girl puts her heart in a bottle to keep it safe after the death of someone she loved.

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Cry, Heart, But Never Break

Glenn Ringtved

Four children sit with Death the night before their grandmother dies. Beautiful and unflinching.

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Is Daddy Coming Back in a Minute?

Elke & Alex Barber

A real family's story of explaining a sudden death to a young child.

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The Rabbit Listened

Cori Doerrfeld

When something sad happens, sometimes the best thing is for someone to sit with you and listen.

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Ages 11-14

A Monster Calls

Patrick Ness

A boy whose mother is dying is visited by a monster. Devastating and beautiful.

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Bridge to Terabithia

Katherine Paterson

A friendship changed forever by a death. A modern classic.

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Counting by 7s

Holly Goldberg Sloan

A gifted girl grieves the sudden death of her adoptive parents and finds an unlikely new family.

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Love That Dog

Sharon Creech

A short verse novel about a boy's grief after the death of a beloved dog.

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Ages 15+

The Sky is Everywhere

Jandy Nelson

A teenager navigating life after the sudden death of her older sister.

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We Are Okay

Nina LaCour

Grief, isolation and love. Quiet, powerful, deeply felt.

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The Fault in Our Stars

John Green

Two teenagers with cancer on mortality, meaning and love.

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FOR THE GROWN-UPS

Books for adults

For supporting a grieving child, and for tending to your own grief alongside it.

For parents & carers

supporting a grieving child

Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children

Bryan Mellonie & Robert Ingpen

A simple, classic introduction to death in nature, used with children for decades.

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35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child

The Dougy Center

Short, practical guidance from one of the world's leading centres for bereaved children.

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Guiding Your Child Through Grief

James P. Emswiler & Mary Ann Emswiler

A comprehensive handbook for parents and carers.

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Never Too Young to Know

Phyllis Silverman

Research-informed and compassionate writing on how children of all ages process death.

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For adults

processing their own grief

Grief Works

Julia Samuel

By a British psychotherapist who has worked with bereaved families for decades.

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It's OK That You're Not OK

Megan Devine

A validating, no-nonsense view of grief that rejects tidy stages and timelines.

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A Grief Observed

C.S. Lewis

A short, honest classic, written after the death of his wife. Raw and enduring.

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H is for Hawk

Helen Macdonald

A grief memoir wound through training a goshawk after the sudden death of the author's father.

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On Grief and Grieving

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler

The classic text on the stages of grief.

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Bearing the Unbearable

Joanne Cacciatore

A bereavement specialist's gentle, deeply humane companion for the bereaved.

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Option B

Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant

Practical, grounded advice from a bereaved partner and an organisational psychologist.

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LISTEN

Podcasts on grief and bereavement

Honest, human conversations about loss, for when you want company in it.

Griefcast

Cariad Lloyd

A British comedian talks to guests about the people they've lost. Warm, often funny, always honest.

Terrible, Thanks for Asking

Nora McInerny

A widowed writer hosts honest conversations about the hardest parts of being human.

What's Your Grief?

Eleanor Haley & Litsa Williams

Grief educators unpacking how grief actually works.

Grief Out Loud

The Dougy Center

Short, practical episodes for bereaved children and families.

Book links go to Amazon UK search results. Memory Robin is not affiliated with any publisher or retailer and does not earn commission on these links. If you know of a book we should include, please tell us. If you run a bereavement support service and would like to be featured here, or to discuss working together, please get in touch.