Resources

We are not alone in this, and neither are you.

There are so many brilliant organisations, charities, books and services out there doing vital work for bereaved children and families every day. Memory Robin is not here to replace them. We are here to work alongside them, and to make sure every family who comes to us knows where else they can turn.

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Books for children living with grief

Grouped by age. Every family and every child is different, these are a starting point, not a prescription.

Ages 3–6

Picture books

The Invisible String

Patrice Karst

A gentle metaphor: the people we love are always connected to us by an invisible string of love.

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Badger's Parting Gifts

Susan Varley

A tender classic: Badger's friends remember the gifts he gave each of them.

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Goodbye Mog

Judith Kerr

Mog the Cat dies, and her family learns how to remember her. Very gentle.

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Always and Forever

Alan Durant & Debi Gliori

A family of animals grieves and slowly remembers together. Warm and reassuring.

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Missing Mummy

Rebecca Cobb

A sensitive, honest picture book about a young child whose mother has died.

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When Dinosaurs Die

Laurie Krasny Brown & Marc Brown

Clear, honest answers to the questions children ask about death, in picture-book form.

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Ages 7–10

 

Michael Rosen's Sad Book

Michael Rosen

Written after the death of his son Eddie. Extraordinarily honest and moving.

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The Heart and the Bottle

Oliver Jeffers

A girl puts her heart in a bottle to keep it safe after the death of someone she loved.

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Cry, Heart, But Never Break

Glenn Ringtved

Four children sit with Death the night before their grandmother dies. Beautiful and unflinching.

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Is Daddy Coming Back in a Minute?

Elke & Alex Barber

A real family's story of explaining a sudden death to a young child.

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The Rabbit Listened

Cori Doerrfeld

When something sad happens, sometimes the best thing is for someone to sit with you and listen.

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Ages 11–14

 

A Monster Calls

Patrick Ness

A boy whose mother is dying is visited by a monster. Devastating and beautiful.

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Bridge to Terabithia

Katherine Paterson

A friendship changed forever by a death. A modern classic.

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Counting by 7s

Holly Goldberg Sloan

A gifted girl grieves the sudden death of her adoptive parents and finds an unlikely new family.

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Love That Dog

Sharon Creech

A short verse novel about a boy's grief after the death of a beloved dog.

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Ages 15+

 

The Sky is Everywhere

Jandy Nelson

A teenager navigating life after the sudden death of her older sister.

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We Are Okay

Nina LaCour

Grief, isolation and love. Quiet, powerful, deeply felt.

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The Fault in Our Stars

John Green

Two teenagers with cancer on mortality, meaning and love.

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For parents & carers

supporting a grieving child

Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to Children

Bryan Mellonie & Robert Ingpen

A simple, classic introduction to death in nature, used with children for decades.

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35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child

The Dougy Center

Short, practical guidance from one of the world's leading centres for bereaved children.

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Guiding Your Child Through Grief

James P. Emswiler & Mary Ann Emswiler

A comprehensive handbook for parents and carers.

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Never Too Young to Know

Phyllis Silverman

Research-informed and compassionate writing on how children of all ages process death.

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For adults

processing their own grief

Grief Works

Julia Samuel

By a British psychotherapist who has worked with bereaved families for decades.

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It's OK That You're Not OK

Megan Devine

A validating, no-nonsense view of grief that rejects tidy stages and timelines.

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A Grief Observed

C.S. Lewis

A short, honest classic, written after the death of his wife. Raw and enduring.

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H is for Hawk

Helen Macdonald

A grief memoir wound through training a goshawk after the sudden death of the author's father.

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On Grief and Grieving

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler

The classic text on the stages of grief.

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Bearing the Unbearable

Joanne Cacciatore

A bereavement specialist's gentle, deeply humane companion for the bereaved.

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Option B

Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant

Practical, grounded advice from a bereaved partner and an organisational psychologist.

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Listen

Podcasts on grief and bereavement

Honest, human conversations about loss, for when you want company in it.

Griefcast

Cariad Lloyd

A British comedian talks to guests about the people they've lost. Warm, often funny, always honest.

Terrible, Thanks for Asking

Nora McInerny

A widowed writer hosts honest conversations about the hardest parts of being human.

What's Your Grief?

Eleanor Haley & Litsa Williams

Grief educators unpacking how grief actually works.

Grief Out Loud

The Dougy Center

Short, practical episodes for bereaved children and families.

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